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Drug and Alcohol
Awareness
Drug & Alcohol Awareness Program-
IHS students met Washington State Attorney General Rob McKenna on February 8 who spoke on
Parents, Teens & the Law Booklet
The Parents,
Teens & the Law booklet is now on our school website under Parent
Information. This is a resource guide to
help you and your teens understand the risks, laws and consequences of driving,
drinking and drugs. It also contains
great information for communicating with your teens and signs to watch out for,
along with a list of local area resources for counseling and advice.
The teen years can be a
trying time for your child. The stress
of school and expectations can mount and depression, anxiety or substance abuse
can result. Sometimes the signs between
normal adolescent behavior and signs indicating substance abuse or use can be a
matter of degrees. As a parent, you have
to rely on your knowledge of normal behavior and act on it. Ignoring these behaviors will not make them
go away and may harm your teen. If you
suspect problems, contact a counselor or advisor. List of names of help agencies are at the
back of the Parents,
Teens and the Law booklet.
Here
are some tips to help you and your teen make it through:
LEARN!!!!!
·
Learn
as much as you can about substance abuse and use
·
Learn
about the signs for anxiety, depression and suicide
·
Learn
to communicate and teach your teen how to communicate
o
Don’t
ask 2 questions in a row, without getting an answer to the first one
o
Don’t
ask “why” questions - they lead to defensiveness
·
Learn
about your computer
o
What
websites are your teens visiting?
o
Review
IM away messages and find out if they have a “My Space” website
·
Ask
your teen to tell you about “My Space” and teach your teen about
problems with posting information on a website.
It’s open to EVERYONE.
BE THE ENFORCER!!!
·
Use
tough love. Surveys of teens show it
works.
·
Don’t
be a friend….be a parent. Provide
structure and guidelines
·
Ask
tough questions: “Where are you
going? Are the parents home? Will there be alcohol or drugs there? Are you thinking of suicide?”
BE THERE FOR YOUR KIDS!!!!!
·
Listen!!!! Be there for your kids when they fall (and
they will) and help them know that they can learn from their mistakes
·
Tell
your teen that their effort is important …. that they don’t have to be perfect.
·
Praise
your teen and give them hugs. And then
more hugs!!! They need your approval.
For more information about Drug
and Alcohol Awareness programs, please contact Nancy Campi, PTSA
Drug and Alcohol Awareness committee chairperson.